Got an author's copy of my new romance book today.--pretty
little thing, I have to say, but it's not only my first romance, but it is my
first flaming hot and very graphic tome. I'm a virgin male author barging in on
this popular genre. An Internet GF (which I sought out) contributed to the physical
and emotional aspects between the lead characters, and we really ripped the seams
open. And that was because we both researched the "how to of it" and
read several romance and erotica books before we even started. I had never even
read a romance book of any kind in 28 years.
We both emailed each other over and over again, laying
down the dreams and fantasies of our genders, with an obvious main focus on true
love with an HEA ending. I was really frightened of love scenes, and turned
fifty shades of pink during this process. My knees went limp thinking about
what my female agent would say about this after she read it. I thought that I
might be seen as a dirty, filthy pig.
I'll admit that we both got rather worked up over this topic
for months, and this fevered pitch really added to the excitement and discovery
in the story-line.
Hell, I think erotica is 75% foreplay before anything happens,
and there is a way to write a sexy narrative tease so that you have your reader
panting and white-knuckling their fists—aching and anticipating some kind of
volcanic release (which they know is there but can’t see), until it starts to
tear them apart. If they end up cussing and ripping pages, you’ve done your
job.
Speaking from a male perspective, I knew that I was going to need more than a little help--a straight leg-up opinion and advice from the female side. And THAT was a huge, huge highway to discovery for me—oh, did I ever learn a ton about the female mindset—feelings of intimacy and passion. Although my book is not a straight erotica, it is rated four out of five flames.
Speaking from a male perspective, I knew that I was going to need more than a little help--a straight leg-up opinion and advice from the female side. And THAT was a huge, huge highway to discovery for me—oh, did I ever learn a ton about the female mindset—feelings of intimacy and passion. Although my book is not a straight erotica, it is rated four out of five flames.
Just saying, I got lucky, went to bat and got a good hit.
I’ll find out if it is out of the park when it finally comes out. My two cents:
Partner up, if you’d like
Research—read these books
Don’t be afraid
Experiment and have a blast.
